Into the Fire (LB55 thread 2)

[LB55]

Thanks R2C and Vapo. This is the hardest thing I have ever had thrown at me. Recently I had to move mountains to get a guy home from halfway around the world to see his 2 year old in ICU after being found at the bottom of a pool. His son died 2 days later. Makes me tear up to this day thinking about it. This crap with W and what she is doing to isolate me from the kids hurts even worse than thinking about his pain and suffering.

I have a question that I keep meaning to ask but keep forgetting. What is the general consensus about informing people that were/are friends from our marriage? We had a bunch of joint friends from around town and i don't think any of them know what is going on. I would like to start working on those friendships again but they live within 3 blocks of my W and are sure to want to know what the deal is. I also have to tell my pastor, he needs to know, and he will probably call my W to talk with her about it.

I owe the L another $5000, makes it tough to feel good about GAL and spending money with that kind of debt hanging over your head. The L's both know how much we have, and W is playing right into their hands with email after email that cost $60/each to complain about nonsense. She thinks I am paying her L fees because that is what she requested in her declaration, I am hoping the court will make her pay her own fees. So frustrating. Cost me $300 yesterday in emails about the car insurance that didn't change. She wouldn't just call them herself, instead emailing back and forth between lawyers to ask questions. I gave her the phone number and direct extension but still refused to call and ask her question directly to the insurance company. This hearing cant get here fast enough now. 7 more days.