Originally Posted by sandi2
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When the WS apologizes, I think they just want to put everything behind them and for the MR to move forward. However, the LBS can't move forward until they have healing, and that healing may require more clarification and another apology from the WS. Not every WS and LBS fall under this description.


This is a very valid observation. It describes my sitch almost perfectly. I will describe a trigger and tell her how it affects me, and she will often get frustrated because she thinks we have already covered it. Sometimes maybe we have from her viewpoint, but not mine. Also, sometimes I just need to go over it again. That is also frustrating for her, because she doesn't understand that I need to go back over topics a few times before I can put them out of my mind.

Last edited by Joe2017; 01/25/19 08:41 PM.

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BD:11/2017
Filed:12/2017
Final: 2/2018