Still foggy, still going (Phoenix9 DB XI)

[Ready2Change]

I get it, I did the nesting thing as well. Was it my best decision? I don't know. I definitely didn't want the house, it had major repairs that needed to be done I halted all work after bomb drop. I definitely wasn't moving out until I had a written 50/50 parenting plan.

I am much more educated in DBing now.

I tried to move back in when WW in the house, but it clearly was not working out

There are many definitions of not working out.

Her getting angry is not a sign of it not working out.

I guess it all boils down to if YOU are TRULY happy with the current arrangement. Are you placating your wife?

I am just asking probing questions for you to think about, as well as giving other options to consider.

Maybe one night you just don't leave. If she ask:

W:"H, what are you doing here!???"
H:"W, I have thing I need to take care of."
W:Bla bla bla bla"
H:"Yes I understand that you feel that way"
W:bla bla bla bla..What is so important bla bla ba"
H:"Nothing you need to worry about"