Agree with everything you said. I can honestly say that I am in a good place. I am where I want to be. And there will never be a sitch #4 or #5. Because I am where I want to be, if she were to BD #3 me, as I've told others, my response would be, "Okay, so how quickly can you be out of the house?" I am in a much better place within myself.
I also appreciate the comfortability vs complacency point. Very good. I think I can honestly say that while we are more comfortable I have not become complacent. And I won't. Ever again.
Tryin to convince me ?
Or yourself ?
A little of both? LOL One thing I am sure of now is that you can never be sure of anything.
Is it workin for you ???
Cause I'm not really buying much of it..
I think you are just as confused by this as anyone reading along might be.
One day you are heartbroken, the next reconciling,the next you are unsure if you are reconciling, the next thinking about leaving yourself, the next you are happy again, then worried about another bomb, no wait..I'm happy and in a good place....
WTF ?
Again....did you answer my questions ??
And just FYI, I don't really need the answers, they are for you....
However, I can tell from most of your words that you glossed over them pretty quickly.
