A couple of days at my sisters house was nice and relaxing, and I met my parents on my way back to the base for dinner last night. Got all my banking stuff figured out, got my new credit cards, my checks for the new checking account, the payoff statement for the first rental home, etc. Sister had hurt her back on Saturday, so I cooked dinner both nights I visited to help out and that was nice to be able to help out. Pruned a couple trees in her yard too. Her and her H have been very supportive during all this and it was nice to be able to repay them a little bit.

Got an email from L today that W's credit card is hard to use since I changed the mailing address for all the banking stuff to an address that she doesn't know. She can't buy gas at the pump because she doesn't know the zip code. Gasp! She has to go pay inside; how exasperating! :-) I find it amusing. Her choice. There are consequences. This is just a small one. Just wait until I close that account after the hearing next week and she has to get her own credit card. I have to protect myself financially and that is just another step to separating us financially. Insurance is next after the hearing. She can get her own car insurance too.

It was kind of a rough night last night, woke up after having dreams of sex with WW. Not of her and OM, but her and I. My brain is missing that, it has been since September; we had a great sex life and would be intimate usually 4-5 days per week. It was exciting and consistently evolving. I miss it sometimes. Hoping this dreaming doesn't become a regular thing; it makes it hard to spend the morning working and being detached.

Going to the gym tonight and then will spend time reading NMMNG since I got that in the mail.

8 days until the temp orders hearing.


Me40; W38; S12; D9
BD11/19/2018 D filed 12/20/18
D Final 7/2020
Being the best example I know how for my kids to see.