This isn't about you, probably has never been about you.
You have been given a gift of some incredible advice. Slow down, be still, and really understand what has been said to you.
Stop snooping Stop asking questions that you don't want the answers to Set some personal goals that don't include a marriage Get out of the house Stop blaming her for your actions Stop holding her accountable for your emotional well being Find out who you are, what you want, what this all means to you.... Realize that you are never gonna talk your way out of something that you acted your way into...
Relax, this is a marathon, not a sprint.
You get to decide way more than you might think.
Spend this time getting ready for those decisions...
So that the possible worst thing that has happened to you, doesn't define you...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
