I'm not super active on SM but I have not unfriended any of H's friends or relatives. I cannot say the same for him though. He blocked me on FB about four years ago (still denies this but it is the only explanation that makes any sense) and unfriended or blocked my family members. I found out recently he has either deleted his FB account or blocked some of his relatives (his siblings and at least two of his cousins that I know of). He is full on trying to reinvent himself and erase anyone from his life who he thinks might judge him. My friend, who is the nicest person I know, ran into him at the grocery store yesterday. She said he looked completely shocked, said "hi" and then exited stage left. I feel for him in some ways. If he had had the maturity to address our marital problems in an honourable way(i.e. told me, try to do some things to "fix" it like counselling, etc...) and we had ended up separated, he could have still maintained these relationships to varying degrees but he blew things apart in such an epically, fundamentally dishonest way that he can't face anyone he thinks might know about it - including his own family members. He told his mom that it is hard being the guy that everyone hates. Don't know of anyone who hates him... mostly they just feel bad for me and confused about him... like...who is this guy and what has he done with H? I think he must be in a very lonely place...when he allows himself to think about it. I know I would be if I were him. But...not my problem anymore, I guess. Old habits die hard.
