26 and trying to save a marriage

[Ready2Change]

I want to just forgive her for my sake, she's not asking for my forgiveness and probably never will.

Just do it. Not in words to her. I forgave my X wife. I have not said anything to her. It is how I think of her. I still get frustrated with her behavior, but there is nothing I can do but forgive her. Her issues, not mine.