Originally Posted by Bo562

I know it’s still relatively early in the day, but I really haven’t had too many thoughts about W or the pending S / D today.

I know RIP irony that I make this post because that means I’m thinking about it, but it really hasn’t been dominating my thoughts today like they have been.


Haha! Well coming here kind of does make you think about your sitch, and you are here to post about your sitch so you get a pass for that smile

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I also have seen on this forum that there will be days like this—days / moments where you think tons about it, and then days / moments where you don’t. Just accept and be grateful for what it is.


Yes exactly. That's how recovery goes. The number of days you think/ worry about your sitch get fewer and fewer as time goes on. It would be nice if it were a switch you could flip and be done with it, but unfortunately it doesn't work that way. You go back and forth for quite a while.

Hope you're feeling better soon!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57