Originally Posted by Phoenix9
With someone else. I had a vasectomy.

I see that she is trying to bait me. I just don’t know if I should respond and I should, how would I? I see her tonight. What should I say if she asks me face to face?


That is patently ridiculous. No court in the world would make you responsible for an affair baby with a separated wife. What is the first thing a court does? Paternity test. Who's DNA comes up? Congrats, he's the loser in the support battle. If she says that to you tonight then just tell her that's nonsense and then walk away. If she persists just say "it's nonsense and that's all I've got to say about it." If it were me I'd tell her that if she does get pregnant to expect the D papers shortly after.

She's trying to manipulate you by the way. Don't fall for it.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57