You can Grace...and you will for as long as you want. And if you get to a place where you don't want to...that's a bad thing. It means that you will have been successful in saving yourself irrespective of whether or not you R with your WAH. And that, essentially, is the overarching goal of DB. I think you are doing a fantastic job of it and I wish that I was as far along as you in terms of detachment. I am getting there though. Just keep moving forward. There is no deadline on this...not until you make one and only you can make that decision. (((HUGS)))
