I didn't handle this well because I see it as one step closer to D.
The things you fear most, you will cause to come true. STOP fearing D. D is not the end of the world. D might be what helps your sitch and eventually gets your W and you back together. It happens all the time.
RVA here is your goal: you need to find your own happiness. Your W can come along on your journey, or go her own way. But find your OWN happiness, stop letting your happiness depend on her.
Originally Posted by RVA18
After MC we continued talking about OM and she told me we have to stop talking about it because it's only driving her further away because there's nothing going on with him.
Let me correct her. You continuing to talk about OM is pushing her further away, whether or not something is going on with him. DO NOT DO THINGS THAT PUSH HER AWAY. Unless that is what you want to do.
RVA, how is your GAL going? What would your self-assessment of your detachment? Are doing it well or poorly?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
