I noticed that when I start to suggest things that have to be done in order to D she gets frustrated or upset.
Yes it frustrates her because logically she knows that D is the wrong thing to do. Unfortunately she will make her decisions based on emotions.
Originally Posted by RVA18
During MC we got to talking about OM and it spiraled from there. After MC we continued talking about OM and she told me we have to stop talking about it because it's only driving her further away because there's nothing going on with him.She said it's not good for us to keep having conversations about OM because it just drives her away.
RV I didn't go back through your thread to see if you were advised on MC. If your W has an OM you are wasting your time and money in MC. You can't make things better with a third party involved. An honest MC will even tell you that you are wasting your time if she is in an ea/pa. Most likely she will use it against you and say we tried everything and couldn't make it work.
Originally Posted by RVA18
My question is, if she's so adamant about D, why does she care about being driven further away from me. This makes me think she's not as sure about D as she says she is.
She doesn't. She just doesn't want you bringing it up because it paints a bad picture of her to friends and family. She wants to D you move on and miraculously months later her and OM get together but after you were D'd.
