Her plan to pay you for half of the expenses is fine. I can see how you see it one step closer to divorce, but it's OK for now. It took me a while, but I finally did it and it was for the best.
Originally Posted by RVA18
I noticed that when I start to suggest things that have to be done in order to D she gets frustrated or upset.
Do you want a divorce? B/c if not, I'd stop bringing it up so much. Everyone knows that you'd have to do these things to get divorced and it makes your W wonder why you brought it up. But it's a rookie mistake so don't sweat it.
I do think you don't need to be focused on the OM. Your W needs to address this at some point if she comes back. You don't just get to start seeing other people when you're married - unless maybe you agreed to that while the two of y'all were up on the altar. If you can't say it in front of friends and family b/c it's shady and crappy, then it's wrong! But that's my opinion and I'm kinda funny like that.
What else was discussed in MC?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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