I see now where you are at. Is it safe to say you are yo-yoing back up after a setback? After MC have you decided how much you are going to pull back to protect your feelings and have you figured out how open/honest you want to be with her? I'm sure you can gauge your convos to see if she is vested. Here's the deal with that for me, if I knew W was still seeing OM and lied to me, I would stop all forward progress,( stopping the games).
If you're W had a setback, depending how honest about it she was with you, I'd consider supporting and encouraging her but it's really what you got from it. Do you feel she is committed and needs the encouragement?
Don't mean to hi-jack but Ginger, when I read your posts, your words hit home. It makes me look at myself as a H, man, and father. My heart goes out to you. Sometimes I can hear words echo as if they are whispered from my W.
H 49 , W 47 T 23, M 17 S11, S5 BD: 7/18 IHS: 7/18 - 3/19 Physically Separated: 3/19-4/19 Piecing: 4/19 - Current
