Quote: I know that in many cases, no R talks and no pursuing are the best stratagy. For my sitch, the 180 that worked was more R talks, more pursuing and lots of reassurances to H.
Lately, I've been thinking that this may be the case for NG too. After R talk last Weds, I got the trinket back. I know he continues to have R talks with OW, and I wonder if it is the sharing he is afraid of letting go? NG and I used to be minimal in our sharing, but boy have we made up for it big time since bomb. Wonder if he thinks we will revert to our old ways? Just a thought. Slowly
