In continuing my last thread, I had asked about putting a box or two of my H's stuff by the door and it was a huge step in my moving forward. He came by to get our kiddo, ignored the box although recognized it and then later asked sheepishly if it was his. He says he was lazy about getting his things yet seems a bit off about it. I just told him it was his and continued prepping our sons lunch for the next day.
At dropoff later, I've never seen him in and out of the house so fast, barely speaking to me. It seems the happier I am the more miserable he seems. I've felt like crap lately with a few D issues but I've tried to keep a stiff upper lip around him.
We worked together to figure out an issue with our son but as soon as it was figured out he went into hiding again...lol! I just rolled my eyes after he left.
I'm supposed to be served D papers soon he tells me as my lawyer is not moving fast enough but so far, nothing. I have my son this weekend so I think we're going to have a few playdates with a couple of his friends from kindergarten so he can play and I can be social.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
