Please do not have ANOTHER convo with her telling her your thoughts. You have done that every month sometimes twice a month. She does not believe you. In fact, none of us do. So please, for your own dignity, don't do it again.
February is here next week and she is waiting to see how you will handle it. That is your timeline. Stick to it.
I know that I differ with some on the monetary arrangement that you have going. I think dropping it down to half would be fair. You will most likely be paying child support and to stop paying after you have been for 20 months will not look well in court. I know you do not want to hurt the welfare of your daughter also.
Have you set a visitation schedule yet? We have all suggested it and you say you will. Trust me, this will help you in more ways than one.
