Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by Living
He comes to me and says, I know that there is something on your mind, do you want to talk about it? And I never do.
Is this old H behavior? Is it behavior you want from H?


Ready to Change, yes that is what my H would have done before he was abducted from the MLC aliens. I don’t know what I want anymore. I’m in tears as I type this response...What I really would want is for my H to go back to the way he was before he was abducted. However, day by day I try to learn to live with the fact that most likely that won’t happen. He’s still in therapy trying to work through his internal issues. There is a lot that happened to him in his childhood that is really affecting him. I do commend him for getting the help. But I just don’t know what I want. To be honest most days I just feel like I’m floating or just existing. I have so much on my plate right now that I just get up and float through the day.

Last edited by Living; 01/23/19 07:09 PM.

Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together