Biggest thing I gleaned from the conversation (haven't had enough coffee yet!) is that h feels a "sword hanging over" his "head" in regards to your decision to stay/go re. M.
Did I read that wrong? I (sorry!) don't know enough about the details of your sitch to know if that makes sense or not but it seemed fairly clear (??) that h is wondering if you are recommitted or, perhaps more accurately, he is feeling that you are not.
Is it possible that he's gunshy about recommitting if you're not?
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
