Hi Gordie,

thanks for checking in on my thread. You have experience and wisdom that I can only hope to achieve, and above that, patience. Your gratitude in noticing the little things that are positive is something I have noticed. I would say that even though your cooking may not be the best, it's food, which is a blessing we can all overlook, but should be grateful for. Of course, a WS seems to have a hard time thinking past the end of his or her nose sometimes.

Tiptoeing around your own W is not fun, and it is not how marriage is supposed to be. But things don't always go how they're supposed to. I'm hoping for continued progress for your sitch.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.