ut NC and no support she’ll see as what. A total ahole?
NC and no support... well if she wants a divorce does she imagine that you'll pay her for the rest of her life and still be her little buddy forever? I think it's more of you standing up for yourself and doing the right thing. She can and probably should get a job, right? And she just loves throwing it out there that she is cheating.
Originally Posted by Did
I don’t respect myself for paying support voluntarily.
Man, I know what you mean. How many things have we done that made us look weak. We aren't weak, so how is it that our cheating spouses make us weak??
Originally Posted by Did
If you’re out go get the divorce.
She hasn't done this yet, so I'd say she's not out. Limbo it is. But take advantage of that time as something to make things better.
When she asks for her check Feb 1....hhmmm I think she can figure it out.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
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