Davide - thanks for the perspective. You're right that everyone is 'available' and there is transparency. I'll give it another shot and see how it pans out.
J - You're so right about talking to women in natural settings and just casually flirting and having conversation. your example was absolutely perfect. I need to do that more.
ST - taking care of your appearance and grooming is definitely important. I have improved in that area in spades over the last year and I look sharp every day. Good accessories and confidence for sure. You have to exude that alpha vibe for women to get naturally attracted to you. I can definitely do that. I just have to be a little more sociable I think. I just went out for drinks with a friend and I had a few women checking me out across the bar. One thing I've become naturally good at is seeing if women are wearing a ring or not. They definitely were so I didn't approach them but I gave a nice smile back. I know that I am pretty decent looking and I clean up really nice. So I have that going in my favor, and of course the personality once we start chatting.
One thing I learned is that always compliment the person and not the object. So, I'd say "wow, you're really able to rock those shoes. they fit perfectly with your outfit". Something that is about the person and their taste rather than the shoe or dress itself. Of course it has to be genuine and not just some line that you want to throw out.
Good learnings here
dusty - man, what you said hit right in the heart. I am so glad that my journey was able to shed some insight into how things were unfolding for you. Yes, relationship with the kids is on the top priority list always and through this process I became even better at it. Kudos to you on the same!
