Okay, I'll accept that 2x4. Either one of us can use any of the gyms in the chain. If we aren't conversing then encounters are unplanned. Some of the locations have better amenities than others. Can I be faulted for wanting to enjoy those? I am not going there to check on her. The time before that I was at the gym and 30 minutes into my 60 on the bike when she walked past me. So take the lessor locations or not and if she is there not pay attention to her?
Working out is for me. if she approves.... well bonus... but not being sought.
Better or not?
H (me) 56 ; W 54 ; M 32 ; D 32 ; D 30 ; S 21 ; Grandkids: 12, 11, 10, 8, 1