IMO you don't go out with the intentions of meeting people you just live your life, get out of the house and opportunities present themselves. For example, I was in the checkout line yesterday at the grocery store and this attractive girl had her food on the belt waiting for it to be scanned. There was not one of those sticks separating her food from what I was going to buy so I asked her if she wanted to buy my groceries. So she came back and said everything but my beer. I then came back and said "you don't like beer?" and then the convo continued. After I started talking to her I realized she had a ring on but that was not the point. The point was I approached and initiated a conversation with a random stranger and who knows next time she might be single. Women whether they are married or not love to flirt and love the attention, the validation. Funny thing was when I was walking out her and her husband drove by me and she smiled at me. I could tell she enjoyed it.
Just live your life, change up your route, linger in public, and opportunities should present themselves to approach.
Exactly what this says. Just live your life, but make sure you do it with swagger and confidence. Women will take notice. Yes women absolutely LOVE attention and validation. You don't need to be a creeper. A small compliment will go a long way. You don't walk up to a woman and say "man you are so beautiful". They hear that all the time. You walk up and say "I really like your shoes, what brand are they? They look great on you...." and then just keep talking. And you will NOT be a creeper by hitting on women in Yoga class. Thats a perfect "in". If you see a woman you would be interested in just walk up to her and talk. Thats all it takes, the confidence to actually engage the woman is the hardest part to get used to.
This woman I met is 13 years younger than I am so there is no issue with a younger woman. Honestly I prefer the younger women now that I met one. I didn't have any expectations of actually meeting this woman like I did. It just "happened". Which was cool with me. I did think she was very pretty when I saw her picture online but thats not why we ended up speaking.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
