Thanks for sharing ST. Curious - how did you meet this sixth woman? it wasn't through a dating app? I'm sure meeting women is not hard, but someone interesting is probably hard to find. However, you can't know until you put yourself out there and get outside your comfort zones. For me, it's time investment right now. Dating apps just time intensive and I haven't had much luck on them. So, I'd rather just try and meet and talk to women naturally. That's going outside my comfort zone for sure, but just striking up conversations without coming off as creepy lol. It's a brave new world.
I met her through Facebook. I was a member of the same group as she is and we both posted a lot to the group. I ended up messaging her about the same subject of the group and we just ended up talking. That was a chance meeting and that is the one that ended up bearing fruit.
I have a buddy at work who is a woman magnet. He is alpha through and through. I took some tips from him. You can talk to ANY woman. Just be confident. All it takes is confidence. I mean it helps to look great too. I have completely changed how I look and dress. I lost 87lbs. I bought an entire new wardrobe of all very nice clothes.
So I went from being fat to being fit and went from wearing jeans and T-Shirts to wearing the following brands.
Perry Ellis Denim and Flower Calvin Klein Guess Aldo Timberland Van Heusen Ralph Lauren Tommy Hilfiger Michael Kors
etc etc. I started dressing super sharp. I used to wear baggy clothes, now all of my clothes is fitted. I wear medium slim fit button down shirts and 34in waist skinny pants/jeans/slacks. I bought several "dress" outfits as well (slacks/shirt/jacket/tie) and wear a suit and tie about once per week. I bought several pairs of shoes/boots etc. So I wear something different every day. I also accessorize nicely. I have a few nice watches that I rotate, Rolex, Omega, Citizen, Movado etc.
That being said I get an unbelievable amount of attention from women now. I am still not used to it. I have women approach me now, both because of my appearance and because I actually feel confident in myself now and I guess it shows.
This is a whole new world and there are TONS of women out there that would love to meet you believe me. My drastic physical changes along with me always looking sharp seems to really piss off my WW lol. I mean you can see what she says to me. Instead of "wow you look great" I get "you are so vain dressing like that" or "you look sickly because of the weight loss".
I will not bother with the dating apps again. I like meeting people randomly and I am confident that I would go introduce myself if I saw someone that I liked.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
