- Run into her at gym
- Sleeping in next room
- House full of her stuff and brother

So you mention three things. And say because two can't change right now it won't matter about the third.

WRONG ATTITUDE! In DBing focus on what YOU can control. Right now the last 2 aren't fixable. However, #1 IS. So do it.

You didn't post about sleeping in the room next to her. Nor about the house full of her stuff or her brother. You posted about walking past her at the gym. So fix that.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018