Lulz, my W starting writing it all down too. Gotta have written proof of why the LBS is a garbage person.
I'm glad you aren't contacting her, that's good. That helps. She'll wonder why you aren't contacting her, and she'll wonder why she cares. Obviously she needs time.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.