I Was a Jerk (Part 1)

[Ready2Change]

Would a detached person be investigating an ex's current flings?

Are you still married? As a man and the "Protector" would it be attractive if you address anything that may be attacking your marriage?

And yea, are you friends with all of your exes? I would have told right there, I won't ever be your friend, even if you stopped treating me like crap.

I like this. I laso like PDT quote ="I have no intentions on ever being your friend, especially when you have decided to cut and run like this."

On this subject, I need go back and read DR and some threads here regarding thoughts on doing things with W and the kids, the four of us together. My gut inclination, and a pretty strong one, is not to.

Mine to. especially in the beginning.

We will no longer be a family. I'm not sure it's better for the kids to play one.

H:W, You have made it clear that you have no intention on being married or addressing the issues that got us to this point. I have no intention to pretending that things are fine when they are not. I believe it is best if we bla bla bla"