Originally Posted by Ready2Change


There are no rules to this thing we call life. We have agreements and broken agreements. With ourselves and with others. Did you break the agreement or did she?

Originally Posted by bubbs16
She has so much hatred towards me, everything is so negative .
She has to justify her actions. That is it. Has to blame someone for her bad choices.


Someone suggested going dark. I agree.

Repeat this three times: "I do not want to be with a woman who does not want to be with me"

Then say it to yourself whenever you need to.


Focus on you. Become attractive. In the way you behave and present yourself to others.



She def is justifying her actions, and blaming me. She has a list apperently that she must look at often on reasons why she is done with me. She told me about the list. Shes been the one contacting me 99% of the time. I dont initiate the contact she always does. Its so difficult.

There has been so many times where i just dont answer her.