Are you saying she would cry in the shower because you wouldn't pursue sex with her?
That was one of the things she was unhappy with and she told me about, yes. I’m also sure that was at least one of the things she would cry about. She wanted me to change with respect to sex in terms of frequency and practices, and wanting to be desired.
After ILYBINILWY BD, I made a 180 in that regard; but I did let off the gas as the pregnancy progressed—out of respect for her fatigue levels. And then I waited a few weeks, as is customary for post-pregnancy healing.