They stay in limbo because they are not happy- They think another person, house, car-- ect will make them happy what they lack to see is happiness is inside and it is not our partner that makes us feel alive but only ourselves-
While in many ways I agree with this there is another side. The limbo that we as LBS are in.
It took me a long time to both understand and accept that it was a limbo that I chose. Perhaps in some ways I'm still in it even though the divorce was finalized a year ago. But remember Grace - the power in this lies with you. You can allow their limbo and lack of decision making to keep you right where they left you looking to them for movement. Watching them to lift them up if they fall. Or you can move forward leaving them to find their own paths beyond our gaze.
It is your choice.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
