The ‘settling’ part is more of down the road—I just don’t want to settle to settle.
If you don't want to settle then don't settle. You do realize settling is a choice right?
Originally Posted by Bo562
She would cry in the shower because of how she felt that I treated her—especially with respect to not listening to her, so the remedies are being more into actions and not words, trying to not procrastinate / be forgetful, and I think sex is one of them in the past, but I’m not pursuing sex with her (more like pursuing overall).
Are you saying she would cry in the shower because you wouldn't pursue sex with her?