it's on you to fuel your detachment and make it happen. Can you honestly say you've been working at detaching? Your BD and mine were close together and you've been physically separated for a bit. What needs to happen for you to start detaching?
What do you do when you start to think of her? How have you grown your friends and support group? You need to find a new distraction or 3 to take up the mental space you used to devote to your W. Stop delaying!!!!!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
