Uncertain of What I Have (Thread 5)

[ovrrnbw]

Will wondering about the price and whether or not your MR be saved help you or your marriage in any way? If not, then it's just unproductive noise getting in the way of your life and healing.

To me it doesn’t feel like she wants to save it, but I know that those are her current feelings, right now.

You state a feeling, then you state that her feelings are just current - as if they can change. Well, if hers can change so can yours? Be positive, and don't worry about those things so much. In the first paragraph you talk about getting off her rollercoaster, then in the second you jump back on it?

I like the last line, Bo. Keep working on making those 180s real and lifelong.