Originally Posted by Steve85
So Cadet......what does that mean for me?


I think this is a good answer
Originally Posted by lost8
Bigger issue is they have to want to address the underlying issue.

So all you can do is put up your own boundaries and keep living your life.



Steve what is it that you want from your marriage that is lacking?

I mean besides that your wife would take care of herself.

Me-70, D37,S36