She is 100% adamant that its over. Nothing is going to change that womans mind that is for sure.
Said every LBS on these forums ever. She seems resolute right now but in 6 months? A year? 3 years? Who knows. They do often change their minds back again. But you can't sit around waiting, you've got to focus on you. And it sounds like you are starting to do that, so good!
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what did she want ? who knows . probably just to tell me about her day of shopping etc. as usual. She text me " hey what are you up to today " on saturday . But that was after some rough stuff on wed and something else that happened. Then she can just come back and say OH hey whats up ? She tends to do that alot.
It's just cake-eating. She doesn't want you anymore, but she likes having someone to chat with now and then. You did the right thing in not answering the phone, it's time to go completely dark on her. No chatting. She's trying to control you and exert power even from a distance, don't let her. If she wants to know why you aren't responding then just tell her you have no interest in being her buddy.
