H just sent an e-mail saying he rented another place for 3 more months. He said he "got lucky and found a nice place, but the downside is it's a 3 month minimum." I knew he probably would have to get a 3 month, but to see it finalized made my heart hurt. I immediately wanted to message back asking if what he really wants is a divorce. And does he think the "downside" of 3 months is a downside for me or him? What’s the point of going on like this if he’s doing NOTHING to change himself or the situation. What keeps him in limbo? Why can't he start figuring out what he wants? Why keep going short term? I guess that leaves him with all the options. To stay away, or come back. So many questions I have.
It just kind of threw me for a loop. I didn’t write anything back, yet. I want to though….also would like to know the address. Shouldn’t I at least know where he is living? For emergencies? I think back to when I couldn’t get a hold of him on the phone when his mom died. Seems reasonable he should at least let me know where he is moving to.
