You did great Im not sure how much the MLCer retains, but he did seem to hear and be somewhat cooperative.
Sorry about S- I know my 17 year old S is also in therapy muddling through his feelings of abandonment from his dad. Definitely very sad for a mom to witness- Im glad your H can be a little present for S- boys do need male role models.
Im not sure our H will ever understand the damage they inflicted-must be hard to deal with for the MLCer so they run further down I know MY xh has covered himself with drugs and alcohol to cope I hope your H will find his way out of the mess he created-
You said your peace and Im sure that much feel good- Hopefully some of it-sticks with him
He realized he did wrong- he apologized His tears also show his remorse, for his actions- Hopefully he can find his way Your kindness, honesty and love and forgiveness will only help him -
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