Ah yes, forgot that at one point, when talking about how he couldn't wait to get this done, he said you don't want to be married to me either. I said, "I have no interest in being married to the person you are now. But I loved the person I married and was married to for 20 years very much. I miss him."
Also forgot when discussing D, I said she was creeped out by him and asked, "Why would you tell her to watch a movie about a father who kidnaps his daughter and hides her in a park living off the grid and avoiding authority for years, and tell her to read a book about a man who hides from the process server to avoid signing the divorce papers his wife tried to get him to sign for 2.5 years (recognize the timing there?)." He says, "I thought they were both enjoyable."