Well, I listened, validated, and remained calm.

Of course, it's all because I didn't get help for my depression, and she's conflicted, and she wants S to live with her...of course that contradicts the phone call I recorded the other day where she said that him living with me is ideal...so...I just listened as much as I could. Oh, and I got the "it'll never be the same as it was in the beginning", "it'll still be terrible", "you won't change" lines, as predicted.

Went pretty much gray rock with it. It seems to have went well though (as in, I'm not a huge pile of nerves right now).

Guess we keep going and just wait and see.