Journaling,

Back in town from my trip. Again I had an amazing time and this high from the fun I had should last a while especially since WW is gone for the week.

Grandma will be buried this week. Family is sad yet relieved she is not suffering.

WW couldn't help herself this entire weekend. Kept sending me messages with passive aggressive under tones and complaining straight out that I am not "communicating" with her. Aka she wants an all access pass along with me asking permission to do things still.

My kids are not little and can stay home for hours alone. Yet I'm a bad coparent because I didnt hand over my exact itinerary to WW. WW upset that I only notified the kids of my whereabouts and timeframes.

There was nothing logistic required for me to be gone. Kids are home no matter what. Yet WW sends me a message saying the kids are sick and tired of relaying information. I did respond to that one and let her know that I wasnt relating information to her. I was telling the kids where I was because they are old enough to get the information directly from me and that it would be nice of she could stop making everything about her.

WW thinks that I'm talking through the kids when in reality the kids are the ones that matter to me so I just tell them directly with zero expectations that they tell or not tell WW.

Funny how for the last 1.5 years when I would ask for specifics, aka "who are you staying out with every single night drinking while out of town four to five days per week for work?" To which I would get "it's none of your business" and when I would protest I would get an "I dont care".

Ya sorry WW but I dont suddenly owe it to you to coordinate my travel with you.

My feeling that I'm 100% is still fully intact.


M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019