When she uses the kids as a reason to contact you, you have two choices:

1. Address the issue with your kids

OR

2. Serve up cake.

It's really up to you, and you know you can't go completely NC. But you can establish some ground rules about everything and stick to them.

You can always ignore the call and text "are the kids OK, I'm on the other line".

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.