All of the missed calls were actually him. I would say at least 20 since he claimed blocking me access to him. Last week, i answered. I wanted to know if i was right and yes, i was. He is concerned about the children and wanted me to know he would support me if i needed his help. ( so kind of him but when i do need him, he shouts me out with: i can' t . ) He dictated what he wanted me to do and ended the call with "i' ve been trying to reach you for awhile now"..
Eventho the call was calm, i could not help the anger build up in me. All i could say was one word answers: yes/ ok/yup/ bye..
Today, Son had a dentist appoint. here in town. I took the day off and want to pick him up. His gf came along. While son was getting his teeth clean, we went to town. His gf started telling me that ex-h was trying to reach her because son was not answering him. But here is the thing.. She has no access to ex-h eiter. He does not want her to have his number.. lol
I don' t get it.. he is blocking himself from the people he needs when he encounter a hurdle with his children.. He can acces us but we can' t access him . Lol
He offered me his support yet i can' t reach him.. lol CONTROL.. pure and simple..
Do i expect more calls? Yes because i opened the door when i answered.
For lunch, we went to Subway. An officer came in behind us. I noticed his badge.. working with ex-h. On our way out, son kept looking at the cruiser as i pulled out. He asked: " is this dad? It looked like him" I answered: "probably, but i ratter not know! If it was, he will text you to see why you are in town." S20: " yes, that' s right. Unless he didn' t see me" Me: "why would only one officer go in? " S20:" yea he?? Lol "
No news on the heath front.. D22 does not buy into his claim. She beleives he got himself in the hospital by drinking heavely and getting his diabetis out of the wack. ( her words made so much sense to me.. it was timed with the phone episodes/ another lost for him creating anxiety / anger/ acting out out of anger/ and realising consequances of his action/ depression.. full circle..
