Reset expectations T and keep GAL. She’s not there, she is not even close IMHO. You need to keep DB. Is she into IC?
She was going to IC, for about 3 months. She stopped because she felt she got all she could from it, and would just stick w/ MC.
If she's not even close, then I think it's a lost cause. A small peck kiss in 4 months? At that rate sex will occur in about 12 years.
But you're right, I haven't done much GALing lately, and aside from some 180s from past behaviors (validation, listening, acts of service, etc), I've probably been too available. Our son wrestles, and I'm a coach, so most of our week is spent at practice, then a tournament on the weekend. not too much time to GAL
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
