I think in most cases it's best to keep the sitch quiet.
Mine was a weird sitch, since literally nobody knew that W was anything like she is. So I've been open about it.
I posted yesterday on my FB that I would be more honest with S (but age appropriate, because that's what most of the family help and parenting class that the judge ordered said was best) and her cousin exploded on me and went on a big rant.
I'm very careful about who is on my FB. This dude literally told me publicly before that W was nuts and that I should run. Well, now he's attacking other family members over my parenting style...as well as attacking me verbally.
I just got screenshots and sent them to my attorney. He's not on my FB anymore.
A few minutes later, W texted me saying she could change her plans with her friends tonight to come talk more about MC. She said I sounded angry that we couldn't finish the talk the other day. I said I wasn't. She persisted "but you seemed upset". I replied: "I told you I wasn't upset. You don't have to worry about my feelings, you know." She said that was confusing.
No idea what she's thinking. Or even if she's thinking.
But I think she knows that she's about to lose a lot. She even said on a call (recorded, of course) that she feels S living with me is ideal.
