So he says he's done and wants a quick divorce yet wont collect his things saying it makes him feel bad to do it. Should I put his things by the door to take the next time he comes to get our son or just let them be and he can get them?
I agree with DV, gather it all up and get it out of your face! You don't necessarily have to leave it on the porch or anything, but at least if you box it up and put it in a remote corner somewhere then it's not a constant reminder. I had to take all the pictures down after my ex left, just couldn't tolerate the constant reminders looking around the house. I also did some rearranging and painting, I didn't like gut the house or anything but did just enough to make it feel less like "our" house and more like "my" house.
