Hi KAW, I'm REALLY enjoying having you in the same 'time zone'
Quote: For some reason of which I have yet seen explained there is a definate lag before the S fully comprehends the impact their infidelity has on their M partner. I have seen some sitches here where that lag can take up to a year or so.
I so need to hear this! So do Deb, BnB and the others. That it is a process the WASs need to go through, and that it WILL take time. A year - wow. OK, I can dig in for a long stretch - my stamina is quite ferocious
KAW, the fact that you are here to gently point these out is such a God send, I know no one else can take away the pain. And you know, I am certain in my heart that I am becoming a better person as a result of this experience and the way I am CHOOSING to handle it. At almost 40, I am also learning the true depths of friendships, even cyber ones
