Soooo, I said before I'd give it till New Years for things to change/improve. Didn't happen, and it's been a few weeks since. Her birthday is coming up in a little over a week. I could be nice, and not do anything until after it passes. Or, I could do what she did, and BD her a week before her birthday, like she did a week before mine. I am going to tell her that I'm done with MC since it doesn't seem to be helping much.
Hey T, rather than full-on BD her maybe sit down for a pre-BD? Tell her you're done with MC and that you are one foot out the door but maybe not both feet just yet and ask her what she is thinking. Give her the benefit to respond that she never gave you. I think you are in the right place to do this, you are not reacting emotionally, you seem quite cool and calm about it so I think the time is right to have that talk. Good luck.
