Hi Slowly, DANG! Leave you for the weekend and I can be assured that it will take a good half hour to catch up on your thread! BUT WELL WORTH IT.
This issue of need vs needy is always tripping me up. H has so many mood swings about this! It just amazes me.
But since I have been away I can tell you that in turning fresh eye to your situation, the positives seem to really be progressing. He's just hanging onto the memory of this affair. I think it is time to really act as if and KNOW that he is yours.
I could really relate to your cherishing the small moments. Those are the moments I tols my h I would miss the most once he moved out. Your small moments are great by comparison. He is really making clear steps towards you and you need to recognize that.
Do you affirm these when you are with him? Does he respond to praise or even small words of appreciation for the ways in which he extends himself to you?
Anyway, I am back...reading my friends threads and trying to catch up..More later. mayafool maya's thread
